Thursday, November 09, 2006,11:56 PM
                         
                         
                         
                          
                         ..if anyone ever thought that after getting hitched,she can stay at home,shake legs,go for afternoon tea,mani & pedi,shop w/o a care in the world..unless ure married to an oil sheikh or a rich tycoon, u can continue DREAMING..like thats ever gonna happen..
..my perfect life after marriage is to ensure that my house is spotlessly clean,prepare gastronomical delicacies for my beloved husband, send & fetch my adorable kids to & from school,high teas with my other mumsy friends,weekly meet-ups for mani & facials,shopping,bla bla bla..u get the picture..thats all but just a dream..i have woken up & smelt the coffee..eventhough khalil earns enough for both of us to live comfortably w/o me having to work,i would like my own income to spend  as & how i wish to..
..do u have any idea just how expensive a married life can get..car instalments,insurance,household bills,monthly groceries,toiletries,all those dinner-outs..& that does not even include one's married life once pregnancy strucks..those monthly gynae sessions,ultrasounds,vitamins,the delivery package & what about after birth?..sometimes i shudder at the mere thought of all these expenses..if i were to be a stay home mum, i am positively sure that we would be able to manage..but i would still want to go to faraway places for my vacations & all that extravagant shopping..& i guess thats where i would have to work..to ensure that i have all this additional income to splurge on myself & my kids..
..so i guess,my long time ambition of being a tai tai would have to wait..(tat goes to u too,anna)..until khalil struck gold or i discovered that i am the grandchild of some sultan & have inherited a huge amount of money..and unless thats ever gonna happen,there's always those reality shows where you can win $1,000,000..
..till i achieve my ambitions,i leave you with these gorgeous lingerie which i would lurveeee to lay my hands on..
               
                >>>and its just us.... and our shoes.>